NAVAL AIR STATION FORT WORTH JOINT RESERVE BASE, Texas -- Domestic violence -- the woman who is harassed at work by a partner, the child who lives in fear, the husband who is humiliated by his spouse in front of others.
These situations and more go on every day. Those who use their power to hurt others can go unchecked for years.
According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence website, this problem stretches across many groups. Abusers come from all groups, cultures, religions, economic levels, and backgrounds. They can be a neighbour, pastor, friend, teacher, relative, co-worker -- anyone.
What can be done? Who can stop the violence?
“We can call for help, be a voice, we can listen, we can advocate, we can notify someone,” said Laura Loftin, 301st Fighter Wing sexual assault response coordinator (SARC).
During the month of October, Loftin’s office focused on the “I Can, We Can” project that emphasizes the impact individuals can make not only to stop sexual violence, but all forms of interpersonal violence. This project encourages individuals to make a personal commitment or pledge to end domestic violence.
Wing personnel and family members of various ages decided to get involved in the project.
They decorated paper hands and wrote pledges on them to encourage others and themselves to stand up to domestic violence. Examples of pledges made were: ‘I can seek justice,’ ‘I can love,’ and ‘I can call for help.’ Many completed pledges are now hanging in heritage hall in the headquarters building and in offices across the wing.
“Other people see these visuals and realize what they can do and that it does matter and people do care,” Loftin said. “It creates a good work environment. It’s promoting something positive.”
Throughout the month wing members had opportunities to make pledges at family day and workshops.
“Understanding what domestic violence is and the part we can play in ending it is crucial to keeping our families and communities safe,” said Col. Gregory Jones, 301st Fighter Wing commander. Make a pledge, hang it in your cube and let it be a reminder that you have power to make a difference. Your small ‘I can’ may save a life”